Tuesday Tips | Volume 20 | Your Vermont Wedding Planner

Spring is here!  Really, really here!  I won't even tell you that it snowed last week...  we need to put that behind us and move on to sunny blue skies and lilacs.  Is that too much to ask for in May? :)  Our last entry was on bar service and what the laws are for a private home wedding in Vermont. As promised this week we will chat about the reasons I truly think you should hire a professional bar service even if you don't technically have to.  

Reasons To Hire A Professional Bar Service For Your Wedding

Like we mentioned above, in our last tip we learned about some of the reasons why you may not need to have a professional bar service at your wedding.  I'm sure this might like seem a great place to save money but before you get really excited I would love to chat more about the reasons why I strongly suggest you do hire a bar service for your big day and it has more to do with the amount of ice you will need to make it happen.... ice!  You have no idea how much ice you will need.  We are talking hundreds of pounds.  And where will you store it all?  OK, back to the list below....

1. A professional bar service will be able to guide you through the process of what is needed to fully stock the bar.  They understand what to buy and how much is needed.  They will come with everything it takes to make the day work and flow smoothly from the best local craft beers to your favorite wine, maybe your Dad's favorite scotch right down to the lemons, limes, cucumbers and mint.  

2. A professional bar services will set up and clean up for you. They will keep the bar area looking clean and organized.  They will haul away all the bottles at the end of the night too.  Take it from someone who hauled over a dozen very heavy barrels of bottle to the street after one wedding... this is huge! Not to mention, they are fast and efficient at what they do and keep your guests happy while moving them along so they can wait on the next guest.

3. Your professional bar service comes with an added bonus too which is a liability insurance policy.  They are licensed by the state and properly insured.  This comes back around to the homeowner too... last week we talked about the reasons why you wouldn't need to have this service but this might be the biggest reason why I would chose to use them.

4.  These bar services serve responsibly.  All of the bartenders and bar backs have been trained by the state.  They are able to detect when a guest may have had enough and when it's time to shut someone off.  They have no feelings involved, which is what you need.  It's a matter of keeping your guests safe and obeying the laws.

I know, some of you are still like, but Randi it might save us some money!  How hard could it be?

Let's also hear from Lindsey Leichthammer, the Director of Catering for The Farmhouse Group, who offers superb catering and bartending services throughout Vermont... she has a way of explaining it too.

        "There are a few reasons why it's best practice to hire a bar service for a wedding on your home and/or property. The first of which is safety. Bartenders aren't just there to pour your Moscow Mules, they provide trained supervision of your guests and monitor consumption for the safety of you and your guests.. Leaving your wedding guests open to judge their own consumption in such a festive environment can lead to many issues: from Uncle Billy asserting his dance moves with his tie securely around his forehead to more serious accidents or drunk driving. Second - stemming from possible accidents - is liability. Bar services are equipped with liability insurance to protect those involved. Otherwise the homeowner is subject to liability for anything that should occur where liquor is being served. Lastly, time is money. A big motivator for the DIY bar is "I can go to New Hampshire, skip the taxes and avoid the markup" However, that also requires transport, storage, chilling of product at east 24 hours in advance (and the ice to do that) ice on the day of (4-600lbs!) the cleanup, recycling removal, etc. Throwing a backyard BBQ for 30 guests and supplying the bar is one thing, but a formal or semi formal affair with 200 of your closest pals is worlds away. Remember that time is money - Don't underestimate how long it takes to secure, set up, break down and clean up any alcohol related items. Having a bar service move everything IN and OUT, as well as provide service to your guests throughout the event, may relive numerous headaches and stress. The week of your wedding, you want to be focused on hosting all of your friends and family, not becoming frantic about foamy kegs with party taps."

And there you have it.  Words of wisdom, not only from me, but also the legendary Lindsay Leichthammer who besides running the catering division over at Farmhouse Group is also the President of Vermont Association of Wedding Professionals.  See!  She's a Vermont Wedding Industry Superstar!  I wouldn't quote anyone less.  Take it from us, hiring a professional bar service on your wedding day might just be the best thing you could do!  You'll thank us later.

Come back next week for a fresh new tip.  ~Randi

 

Tuesday Tips | Volume 2 | from Your Vermont Wedding Planner

Happy Holidays from Vermont!  I'm still playing around with my title for Tuesday Tips and hope to land on something that feels right really soon. Feel free to drop me any suggestions you might have. So, I've been thinking a lot about the generosity of others this time of year but also during the wedding process which brings me to today's tip.

Let your bridal party help with some tasks and decisions.

Makeup for both of these stunning brides by Flawless Cosmetic Design. Photos on the left by Ember Photography and on the right by Grazier Photography.

Makeup for both of these stunning brides by Flawless Cosmetic Design.

Photos on the left by Ember Photography and on the right by Grazier Photography.

I know!  I feel you dying a little bit inside at the thought of giving up some control but I promise, it's OK and it even might help to ease a bit of that stress. Let's look at bridesmaids as our example today...

Who are your bridesmaids?  They're family, life long friends, and maybe newer friends who you know will be there forever.  These are your people! They are a huge part of your life.  They want to be part of your wedding day.  They want to jump in and be supportive but maybe they don't know how to or what is needed.  You should let them help.  Let them make some decisions, easy ones to start... let them pick their shoes.  You want them in comfortable shoes that day.  Boom, one decision you don't need to make.  Next, depending on your wedding style, let them pick their dresses... with some guidelines. We have to have a few dress guidelines!  Then, actually give them control to plan your bridal shower or bachelorette party, like really give them the control. Enjoy the surprises that they come up with for you.  Or maybe you can let them help with that one DIY project that you decide you really want to do. (Notice I said 'one' because I'm not going to let you take on more than one DIY... more on that in another tip)  And let them go further, maybe lean on them to make suggestions on vendors.  Often they know someone great too.  Imagine getting a recommendation from your planner and one of your girls about the same vendor.  Now that is a match made in heaven! A perfect example is in the image above when these two dear friends shared the same makeup artist, the sweet and talented Marieanne from Flawless Cosmetic Design, for their wedding days. 

Now take this idea and run with it.  I bet you'll be surprised at how much your attendants are willing to do for you... not only willing, but how much they really want to help.  

Tuesday Tips from Your Vermont Wedding Planner

Happy Tuesday from a VERY snowy Vermont!

Today's Tip:  You'll never regret a few moments alone with your spouse on your wedding day.  Talk to your planner about scheduling in 15 minutes alone.  It seems like such a short period of time but it will be the perfect amount to connect before you are consumed by a beautiful night of family, friends, toasts, dinner and dancing.

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                                                                Location The Ponds at Bolton Valley | Photo AliCaliPhoto